What a handsome man! He can come to dinner any time. If you want to visit him in person, take the local circumvesuviana train from Sorrento and get off at Scavi di Pompei. You can’t get lost. Just follow the hordes of people. Regardless, there are lots of signs directing you. If you want to avoid the crowds, go in the late afternoon when the bus tour gangs should all have left. Pompeii is a favorite spot for school groups too, so don’t be surprised to see throngs of children all over the place as well as the usual happy -go-lucky new-sneakers tourists. Get a free map at the entrance.